Spice up Valentine’s Day
Ok you may think Valentine’s Day is over commercialised and the only winners are the retailers. But why not use this opportunity to rekindle the passion in your relationship? These days being a busy Mum or both partners working can mean a good night’s sleep takes priority over good sex! Make time for romance and then everyone’s a winner!
Setting the scene
If you have kids try to arrange a sleep over at a friend’s house. An empty house presents any number of possibilities! Plus you can make as much noise as you like!
Ask your partner if there is anything they would like you to do or try. Talk about your fantasies (you don’t have to act on them - unless you both want to!).
Getting in the mood
The Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon has made erotic fiction more accessible and is a great way to get in the mood. Why not try reading or re-enacting a scene together. If books are not your thing then try some sexy music or a dvd and a sensual massage with baby oil or edible massage oil. A perfect way to be adventurous and explore each other’s erogenous zones!
Food of love!
Smother your lover with squirty cream , yoghurt or even chocolate body paint and then lick and suck away! If you don’t fancy the mess in bed then try it in the shower!
Simple things like hand holding, cuddling and compliments show your partner you find them attractive and desirable. Offering to cook, wash up or even bath the kids show you care. Small gestures can make a big difference later on in the bedroom!
Perhaps dressing up may add a little excitement!
Doctors and Nurses outfits can be an ideal choice. Or maybe a Sexy French Maid and the Lord of the Manor (the feather duster is a sensual prop!). You don’t have to wear fancy dress for role play. You could just glam up and pretend to be strangers accidentally ‘meeting’ at a pub or restaurant.
Sexy lingerie can make a woman look and feel sexier and more provocative. What man can resist the allure of
stockings and suspenders? Chemises flatter any figure and are available in a range of colours, styles and prices. It is easy to order on-line and saves the embarrassment of venturing into a lingerie department. If you are buying for your partner then have a rummage through her drawers first to check the correct size! It is easy to become complacent in a long term relationship. Don’t let this happen to you! Everyone enjoys feeling loved and desirable. So as well as a mushy card and chocs or flowers go that extra mile, try something new and make each other smile!